Breastfeeding and a date with her husband or return to work

breastfeeding and return to work

There are a lot of reasons why we must leave our Baby with someone other than ourselves. School or college, work or additional assignment, case in court or other official matters, stay in the hospital, own or with an older child, and even a dateand with my husband or going to the cinema with a friend - they absolutely do not necessarily mean that we must give up breastfeeding, or that we will have to feed the baby with modified milk. Today I will tell you how I organized breastfeeding, running my own company ...

and even coordinating the client's wedding less than 2 months after delivery.

The basis of the Wedding Planner profession is availability and long-term planning - when I took the coordination of this wedding, I did not even know that by that time I would become pregnant and have another child who would be less than 2 months old. Clients' trust in Wedding Planner is the basis of work in this industry and our company, and I knew that I had enough time to prepare myself and my child for this trip.

Not only this exit was a challenge for me - it happened that I had to drive to the company for a moment, have a meeting or sign documents - I always took a newborn baby or a few months old baby with me, except for exceptional meetings with clients - then I went with my husband who was with the little one in the next room and I could come and feed him at any time. However, I could not take my son of several days to coordinate the wedding.

Making up for lost time

I knew that remorse would not help anyone here, so when I was with my son, I allowed us to be with him on his terms, always feeding on demand, also to make up for emotional and physical intimacy. I remember when Maks was a few months old and I led her for the first time after giving birth Course for Wedding Planner and for 4 days after 9 hours I was away from home. Immediately after the course, I went with my husband and children for a small vacation to Olsztyn to make up for our closeness.

Feeding at a distance

Until 6 a month, I fed Maks only breastfeeding (I described the adventure with diet extension here), so leaving him even for two hours, I had to leave him my milk.

Expressing milk

Both at Mikus and Maks, I was pumping food with an electric breast pump - at home, getting ready a few days earlier to go out, as well as outside. The electric breast pump allowed me to express milk easily and painlessly in each of these situations.

Each of us has lactation of varying intensity. Mine was, barely enough, one could say (I wrote about my lactation crisis here) - expressing food at home, I always did it after feeding. I could not afford to express milk between feedings, because at that time I didn't have enough milk for the next feeding. Outside the home, I sucked out food every three hours, more or less at those times I'd feed Maks.

When leaving the house, I remembered that the best food we have is the one that I give within 24 hours since expressing [1], so when planning my exits, I tried to plan them in such a way as to give the child freshly expressed milk as often as possible instead of always freeze them and give your child frostbite. Therefore, when I pulled the milk before leaving, I did not put it in the fridge - I saw that Maks would eat it within three hours and during that time nothing bad could happen to milk. On the other hand, if it didn't work out, I wasn't worried about serving previously chilled or frozen milk, because mother's food, or even thawed, stored in the fridge is still incomparably better than the artificial one.

return to work after maternity

Storage of expressed milk

How much milk can stand? [1]

At room temperature - up to 6 hours

In the fridge (maximum temperature <10 ° C) - up to 3 days

In the fridge (maximum temperature <4 ° C) - up to 8 days

Freezer (maximum temperature -18 ° C) - 6 months

There is no more than 4 ° C in my fridge, so for simplicity I remembered this rule as "the 6 principle"- 6 hours, 6 days, 6 months.

It is worth keeping the milk in the fridge at the back, where it is the coldest, not at the door or on it, where it is the warmest.

What to store the expressed milk?

In my career as a nursing mother, I used three different breast pumps. Each of them had the opportunity expressing milk directly into the bottle, one on which I could put a teat on and feed the Baby, as well as a special one food bag - an extremely useful function if all the food bottles are full.

pouches for storing food

The most convenient way was to drain the milk to the breast pump with the bottle attached, but when all of them were full, I occasionally used the bags.

Milk expressed in a refrigerator, i.e. the fastest intended for consumption, it was easiest to store in a bottle. In addition to the one attached to the breast pump, I had a few extra - I carried them in my bag, so it was easier and without the risk that the bottle would break and flood the contents of the bag.

food storage bottles storage of breast milk

But when planning to store food in the freezer, I almost always used it special bags for storing and freezing food. They have very nice labels - I noted on them the date of collection and the amount of expressed milk, and this can be done even with a regular pen. I left the field for an hour. Since I could store milk for up to six months, this value did not matter to me. Sometimes I also used them in the fridge.

how much breast milk can standfood bags

This is a discovery - I froze flat pouches with food - thanks to this I save a lot of space, the notes on the bag were easier to read, and the food thawed faster - all the pros! So that the pouches do not stick together during freezing, I put them in pieces of paper towel. I also regularly looked at frozen milk and arranged it according to the date of delivery, always the oldest at the top for faster use.

freezing bags

How to defrost mother's milk?

We've got milk it is best to defrost in the fridge - slowly, thanks to which it will retain the most nutritional value. After thawing, milk should be consumed within 12 hours. If I was in a hurry, I put them in warm water - but never warmer than 37 ° C, so that it would not lose valuable value - regularly shaking the bag for faster thawing.

Absolutely however Do not freeze thawed milk once.

thawing breast milk

How to serve breast milk?

The expressed milk can be given using a syringe or a tiny cup (as for syrup, you can also buy in the pharmacy such containers for administering medicines - they will be perfect). I recommend this method especially for newborns, so that they do not interfere with their breast-feeding or make them lazy by feeding them with a bottle (bottle sucking is much easier for a child than breasts - milk almost flies, which may cause that the child will be less likely to suck the breast, and also requires a different technique). Of course, you can also feed bottle - However, it cannot be denied that, although manufacturers are outdoing themselves in the production of breast-like teats, the method of sucking milk from a bottle is different.

Personally, after the adventure of feeding milk with a syringe (when I had too little food after giving birth, I gave the child every expressed quantity), in the second month of life, when breastfeeding did not cause us any technical problems, I started to give Maks my milk in a glass bottle with a teat from time to time. Although at that time I was taking my son everywhere with me and did not have to give him expressed milk, I had in my head the coordination of the wedding and the fact that sooner than later I would have to leave my son for a few hours and wanted drinking from the bottle was not associated with him extra stress. However, I chose a bottle with the smallest possible hole so that the Toddler, eating from the bottle, also had to make an effort.

Why choose a glass bottle?

Glass bottles are ecological and biodegradable, but most importantly - the easiest way to keep them in perfect condition - they are very easy to scrub, they do not scratch from the cleaning brush, do not absorb odors, do not collect deposits and do not dye from juices. At the first son, we used plastic bottles, which after a few months were only suitable for the garbage can, and then we switched to glass bottles, which we still use today. It is worth having a glass bottle from the same company as the breast pump - An additional benefit is that all the feeding accessories go together.

glass bottles for children

At what temperature should mother's food be served?

We can give the expressed milk in room temperature, but not all children like such cool milk, it's worth it then heat by placing the bottle in warm (but not hot) water. You should never heat milk in the microwave.

After using the bottle, until Maksio is half a year old, once a day I disinfected them in a sterilizer. When Maks started to eat from the floor, I did it less often 😉

glass bottle

When a child refuses to eat from the bottle

I was afraid of leaving my son for the first time and he would refuse to eat from the bottle when I was far away from him and I couldn't help him. Therefore, before I left Maks with Dad for the first time, I made sure that he would be able and wanted to eat from a bottle, training this skill earlier. I know children who were able to protest and during the entire 8 hours of absence we are not to take the bottle, so it's worth checking it out before we leave the Baby for the first time. Some children, especially older than 6 months, are great at drinking milk from a cup or a water bottle.

lansinoh bottle

Expressing milk at work

My work has a different character - sometimes these are days spent in the office, and sometimes outside, in hotels, meetings, outdoors or away. Therefore, when leaving the house, I always had a breast pump and containers for storing expressed milk.

My first lonely trip to work for the whole day was the way to coordinate the wedding of clients - there was no intimate place to express milk in the wedding hall, and I didn't want to do it in the toilet, so I quickly realized that working mobile, the car will be my asylum. I used it for this purpose also when I returned to training, and for many months I was expressing milk even for two breast pumps to fit during breaks - I did not always have enough milk at home and care to express thoroughly during the day enough to have enough for the whole next day, it is extremely important to me. I have to admit that my determination to work with two different breast pumps in the hotel parking lot fills me with pride dum

Initially I used the a breast pump for the power supply - at home and in the office - with battery option - outside the office, i.e. primarily in the car. At that time, I couldn't forget about the battery supply, but unfortunately the breast pump had less power on the batteries, so the pump took longer, and when the batteries were discharged (for example, in winter, when I left the pump in a cool car, it happened much faster) I was unable to express milk .

Because I fell in love with a USB-operated breast pump - by powerbanku, Chargers or even laptop! Since when the USB cable I could connect directly to the phone charger in the car, I gained real comfort and independence. I no longer needed any batteries or an electrical outlet, because away from home, office or car any powerbank or even the laptop was enough for me - you can see it in the photo below - and it works 😀

Lansinoh Compact Electric Breast Pump

I remember the great relief I felt when Maks started to eat solid foods, one portion of my milk was enough for the whole day of training and I did not have to express milk outside the home every 2-3 hours to make up my home reserves. Therefore, if you go back to work, when your child is already half a year and older, you can be much calmer!

What if Mama's milk runs out?

I really did not want to give the child artificial milk, especially because of Maks's allergy. My pediatrician was also against it and recommended plant milk for emergency situations. A balanced diet, breastfeeding and plant milk have been our safe and healthy option from time to time - this milk stays with us even after breastfeeding. After the breastfeeding at the age of one and three months, as it was with us, there is no need to give the baby modified milk (of course, it is worth asking about the balanced diet of the child, dietitian or pediatrician). Oat milk, millet milk, and from time to time also rice, coconut or almond permanently entered the diet of our entire family.

How much is all this?

At first, it seemed to me that the breast pump, bottles and pouches for storing food was a big expense, but I didn't know then how many cans of modified milk a child needs per month and I did not multiply them by the price of one. It even 300-500 PLN per month depending on milk! Therefore, without remorse I bought more bags for freezing food and I knew that I still saved a lot of money (and health) compared to buying modified milk.

Which breast pump should you choose?

The basic choice you'll face will be between manual and electric breast pump. Which is better?

Manual or electric breast pump?

The basic difference between them is of course both included in the price and in the comfort of use. Personally, I took the electric breast pump for childbirth - I had a good feeling, because later it turned out that my lactation did not start immediately after delivery and it was the breast pump that helped me unscrew it. I was glad that I chose the electric one because I barely had the strength to express - and I did it after each feeding with the 7-5-3 technique, i.e. for half an hour once every 2-2,5 hour. After adding the time needed for changing and taking care of the Newborn baby, I didn't have much time to rest (You can read the whole story of my fight for food here). They were very helpful too two expressing phases - Our baby sucks his breast shortly after joining, also differently than when milk flows out of it smoothly. I will tell you about them below.

I also knew that I would want to breastfeed for at least a year and I would go back to work sooner, so I put on a breast pump that is as quiet as possible. I have already written to you above about problems with feeding the breast pump outside the home - that's why choosing a USB-powered breast pump connected to the power supply or power bank was a shot for me in 10! However, if you have already started lactation, you do not plan to leave the baby outside of exceptional occasions and you intend to use the breast pump occasionally, the breast pump manual should do just as well.

However, if you care about an electric breast pump, quiet, powered USB cable connected to a power bank, car or laptop, two phases of suction and different power functions, you must see my latest Lansinoh compact electric breast pumpwhich I had the pleasure to test. Thanks to the silicone cover with nice ears, it is definitely the prettiest breast pump I've ever seen.

which breast pump to choose

Lansinoh Two-Phase Electric Breast Pump

Lansinoh breast pump has two phases - one to stimulate the flow of food, and the second to download itthat mimic the baby's mouth movements and imitate the natural rhythm of his food intake. We also have a choice five levels of suctionthat we can use when expressing milk. In this way I could better adapt the device to my comfort. Both phases are switched automatically, so I didn't have to wonder when I should go from one to the other. The breast pump also has an automatic shutdown function that is started when the machine is left unattended for 60 minutes. So if I happened to fall asleep or forgot to turn off the device, I did not have to worry - it turned off by itself!

In addition to the breast pump and all accessories necessary for its operation, the set also includes a free power bank.

two-phase breast pump

An additional advantage is warm and nice breast tip, such a silicone cushion that touches our skin - I have never seen one like this before, and allows for a perfect fit.

Lansinoh breast pump tip

It is also very important that Lansinoh offers spare parts and service support, i.e. full after-sales service, including post-warranty service, and in practice it means that if you have a need, you can buy any part, a hose, a diaphragm or whatever you need.

What is not worth forgetting about?

They absolutely needed me lactation pads - as long as I fed Maks only breastfeeding, that is, until the sixth month, I used them on every trip without him, and I always knew that these Lansinoh are the best in the world!

First, are packed in separate shirts, making it easy to take them with you to work or a walk.

best breast pads lansinoh breast pads

Secondly, they have two stickers - thanks to which the insoles stay exactly in place, saving us stress during the day.

lansinoh breast pads

And thirdly, they have a shape that adapts perfectly to the breast - they do not stick out, are thin and do not impress under clothing, and most importantly - absorb well.

lansinoh breast pads

If this is your first time out, you should also bring something for a disguise. It has not been useful to me yet, but it is worth having such a possibility in case of failure, and in practice - just a calm head.

Contest!

breast pump layette competition

Prize

The functional compact Lansinoh two-phase breast pump with a power bank and a beautiful silicone case with pink ears can be won!

What should you do to take part in the competition?

To continue participating in the competition, simply answer the question:

What equipment to make life easier for every mother?
So you could experience time with your baby even more fully?

I count on your creativity - maybe it hasn't been created yet and together we will inspire the world to create it 😉
Although today I would like a tumble dryer, which supposedly replaces a self-ironing clothes machine.
And quietly, I sometimes dream of stopping time and ... getting enough sleep.

Leave your answer under this post in the comment to Monday 28 January 2019 to 23: 59,
and I will choose and announce the winner to 31 on January 2019. Leaving a comment is tantamount to acceptance Regulations Competition.

IT IS ALREADY! COMPETITION RESULT!

Thank you all for participating in the fun, I had a great time reading these sensational ideas and totally dreamed. I liked all the answers and I'm sure that each of these things would make everyday life easier for us all.

When choosing a winner, I decided to refer to our word - signpost for 2019 year, and that's a word RELATIONS.

Because Agnieszka Nand I would like a wardrobe with a magical passage! We enter and we are wherever we want. " I would sometimes let children fall asleep in it so that Grandma could watch them asleep, and we could only enjoy the time together without running up and down. I would eat lunch with my mother today, take the test results to the hospital without leaving home, saving 6 hours, not waste time on commuting or kindergarten, go with the children for a walk around the Faroe Islands today, and drink coffee in New York tomorrow morning. I would publish today's competition results in Texas, sipping tea on the porch with Justyna, watching our children go crazy on the swings.

I just wonder if the wardrobe could move to heaven - Mikuś and Maks would happily play with older Brothers and Grandfather, and I would again be able to hug the first man in my life and embrace my first-born sons for the first time.

Agnieszka, regarding the delivery of the prize, write to me at hello@agnieszkakudela.pl.

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  • 05.06.2019

    What equipment could every mother use? Husband-Robot! He would cook dinner, do the laundry, take piss-off diapers, get up at night for the baby etc. and at this time moms could rest and spend time with the baby on tickles, games, singing, telling funny stories, etc.

  • ADA
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    29.01.2019

    sometimes I drift away in dreams
    and I'm thinking about things that can't be done
    sometimes about a pot that he does everything himself,
    on the hand of the gadget, what order is doing,
    at the time he stops when he needs to
    about a machine for the sun to shine from the sky,
    But I would like the webcam in my eyes the most
    what will record the first steps in pranks,
    first words when dad is not there,
    the first porridge is everywhere on the walls,
    first dances and fights until dawn,
    first walk and first night which was a good night's sleep.
    Although it is not equipment that will make my life easier,
    It will definitely bring you joy,
    After all, you'll never see the first moments again
    And neither parent wants to miss them.
    In addition, the equipment that reads children thinks to know faster when crying is near.
    I have these two little dreams somewhere in my heart
    and a scientist, please create them 😉

  • Joanna
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    28.01.2019

    I only dream of one such machine that would sleep for me. You could set a nap time, she sleeps and I can take over the house, do the laundry, iron and cook, she slumbers an hour for me and I sleep in an hour and rest. 🙂

  • Magdalena
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    28.01.2019

    What equipment to make life easier for every mother?
    So you could experience time with your baby even more fully?
    In order to enjoy the time with the baby as much as possible, you need peace and joy flowing from Mum, giving both a sense of fulfillment and security. Equipment that could provide such a feeling must be a multi-purpose combination and I imagine it like this: an ergonomic carrier with a built-in breast pump and a back massager. Thanks to this solution, we can perform many activities being close to the child, gathering the best food for him in the absence of us and taking some relaxation for ourselves and thus charging our batteries with positive energy for ourselves, the child and partner 🙂

  • Magdalena
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    28.01.2019

    I thought about it all evening ... I remembered my first maternal beginnings (6 years ago) and I wondered what might help me in about a month when I give birth to a second child ... And in total I would like to ask for "one button / button / button" I could turn off thinking about ironing, cooking, shopping, dirty floor, pile of laundry, trillion things to do, asking for pictures to grandparents, etc. for just a moment, because maybe I would have lived more fully with my little one if I had just focused on him , at least one day at 100. She ignored the rest. In the meantime I was lying feeding my daughter and I was frustrated that I had a carpet full of trash. I wore it angrily that if they were free I could iron or cook. I went out for a few hours walk with remorse that I would be backlogged at home again. I was getting the joy of motherhood myself, shifting my center of gravity to the wrong place. And what's worse, I'm still falling into this trap. That's why I am asking for a "switch" of unnecessary frustration for mothers.

  • 28.01.2019

    We are just planning another pregnancy ... and I have a few dreams (they are a bit unreal, but ... you can dream):
    1. Sleep in tablets to apply in crisis moments
    2. "Something" that will allow you to capture those beautiful moments when a child is so tiny and be able to come back to them .... in a few years ... Something that will bring back: smells and sounds. Something that will let you feel the softness of the skin and the softness of the first hair again ... Something that will make your face feel like Young Mommy once wrinkles cover your face ...
    3. A decent breast pump ... because I already know that I will want to feed my milk again, but from my breasts the child will not be able to eat ... (such anatomy ...) and that ... I will quickly return to work (for an hour, two a day, but ... I will return ).

  • Agnieszka
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    28.01.2019

    Hello. Every mother knows that household chores take a lot of time. It could be nicer if we could take the baby everywhere. As a mother, I would like to have a "home-walking" stroller, which will have a solid body and changed wheels (such a small revolving around the house and wide, cushioned for a walk. It could use a built-in rocker option. Of course, it should be folded (to transport in a car) It will replace several furniture / appliances: a cradle, a stroller, a rocking chair and thus a lot of space.
    Regards.

  • Iwona
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    28.01.2019

    Distributor of patience and Belgian pralines It is not a day that I do not have to take 10ciu deep breaths with my 11 month-old toddler, and I think I am a patient hehe Such an invention should give in the hospital at the birth of a baboon Who votes with me ?! Mr. President !!!

  • Piotr
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    28.01.2019

    It will be a bit from the future but I hope it is not so far away. My idea is a robot or a machine that allows me to change my baby at night. It will be for the benefit of mother and child and from a future father's perspective for me. A child who is dry and full will be happy, parents happy because they will have more time for themselves. Sleeping nights by parents will allow more activity during the day

  • Malgorzata
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    28.01.2019

    I believe that the device, which is supposed to help mothers to be calmer, more cheerful, just happier, changes with the child's age 🙂 The coffee machine will check right after birth when the night wake up is endless, Irobot roomba will be great when the baby crawls, not to mention washer dryer that is always needed 🙂 aaa and gps when the child grows up 🙂 One plus of all these supporters is that no one can replace a child's mother 🙂 Regards: *

  • Agnieszka Zgrzeblak
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    28.01.2019

    I think that a device that would make every mother's life easier would be a device that would give us a lot of strength when we lack it. And mental and physical. I know that as a mother we can find a lot of it for our little ones, but if such a machine could add it to us without effort, why not 🙂

  • Kasia
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    28.01.2019

    I could use a magic pencil with an eraser erasing all problems (with food stagnation first of all; (, expanding the diet, malaise, even erasing the tears of an infant when mother can't understand what the toddler wants), and with a pencil I would draw imaginary devices to help with daily activities with a toddler 😉

  • Berenice
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    28.01.2019

    Certainly it would be a robot that would bring me a pram and shopping to the second floor of the apartment (without elevator), unpack it and maybe even make dinner. If he would still like to put in the laundry and iron it, it would be great at all. The time when he would replace me in everyday life would spend playing with my son, building this extraordinary bond and I would devote myself fully to Little Treasure. As we have, we know sometimes lack of strength for all this

  • Sylvia
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    28.01.2019

    I agree with the girls that my mother could use a robot that does everything. I will say so trivially that the tool that allows me to enjoy every moment with my beloved son is simply a feeding attachment. They were a rescue already on the first day after delivery and they are still with us. They helped when I started to doubt that I would be able to put on a baby and feed. Also praise the creators for the "instrument" thanks to which I shed fewer tears, I was calmer and from the beginning I could enjoy closeness with my beloved. greetings

  • Joanna
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    28.01.2019

    I could use a small "boobly" robot that would attach to the breast and during cooking, cleaning, bathing or sleeping (that's the most) when my baby swallows the milk into the mouth of the baby. I don't know yet what such a robot would look like, but maybe one mommy will have an idea, create a drawing and together we will go to the invention factory and sell for millions of designs of the "boobian" robot and admit timidly: I could use such a wonderful sweet electric breast pump with pink with dumplings, especially since I plan to open my own beauty salon soon, and this will unfortunately result in drawing off a lot of milk. I keep my fingers crossed behind me

  • Adrianna
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    28.01.2019

    Hmm .. if I could create something that would really be useful to us, it would be a special bear that would have my body temperature, would have a heart that would beat my heart rhythm and could stroke my child's cheek 😉 then I could do everything at home and my little son cozy such a bear could sleep peacefully because for the first months I only fall asleep on my hands and when I tried to put him to the cradle he would wake up immediately od

  • Natalia
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    28.01.2019

    Equipment? For me, probably the most important is and will be - communication. Equipment that would simply allow the people who are the most important for me to be able to devote their time to me and the baby, without worrying about the world collapsing without them. The closest friend does not fly back overseas so quickly, her parents do not return to each other in a few thousand kilometers, after a short week of hospitality. I have never needed so much and underestimated the time spent with loved ones as after giving birth 🙂 So, let me think of something so that this distance can be covered in a moment.

  • Urszula
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    28.01.2019

    Instead of equipment, I would prefer someone to be next to, cook something warm, hang the laundry, sometimes iron, because how much you can walk in crumpled clothes. And above all, that you can speak to someone normally, and not go back in terms of development. 😉 I would like to have more strength and more hands to be able to take care of both older and younger. In addition, with my plans for a mega quick return to work, at least partly the breast pump would be perfect. Or I'll have to go to work with this natural "breast pump", which will also be partly possible. 🙂

  • Kasia
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    28.01.2019

    One useful gadget? In my case it is no washer dryer, no food processor, no magical breast pump, basically nothing that would spare me, because all this is done by my beloved Husband :-). I only dream about such a small remote control with one On / Off button. Thanks to this, I could turn off comments that I didn't want to hear as a new mother 🙂 I have been a mother for 3 for months, and I fought breastfeeding the biggest fight I could ever imagine. In my family, no one has fed or fed, and everyone thinks that the breast is indeed, but why bother, as ready milk are now of such good quality. And I already knew that the best investment for my daughter would be feeding her naturally. I went through 2 breast inflammation, a few stagnation, fighting in the hospital not to give a small mm, a row at the family home that I let the child hang on the breast, I still have to explain why I don't give the cylinder a bottle. But I did not give up and despite the initial problems with feeding, I started lactation so much that recently I have been feeding the milk bank and helping other mothers 🙂 this is my greatest success 🙂 So such a pilot in a pocket format so that I could filter the voices around and choose only those that were full of support and understanding for breastfeeding - this is in my opinion the best gadget for a young mother 🙂 greetings!

  • Ewa
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    28.01.2019

    I dream of a wonderful ironing machine for clothes and clothes 🙂 that's probably in the first place. Immediately afterwards, the magical self-filling fridge! Of course, only healthy food 😉 what's more - preparing delicious dinners from it. In addition, something that already exists - a vacuum cleaner that cleans with willpower and a man does not need it for happiness 🙂 And maybe some more work to bring garbage 🙂 as if to have it all, all the attention and time could be devoted to the most important things - being with a baby really in 150% <3

  • KATIE
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    28.01.2019

    A wonderful, maybe existing device I do not know, I would not have an armchair but a hybrid swing that would allow you to hold the young on your hands hug at the same time relax in a comfortable armchair that massages your back and wakes you together gently to sleep. Relaxation, closeness and love falling asleep at one time. And time with a child runs away very quickly ... which is a pity because it is worth stopping and dust on the furniture can wait. GREETINGS.

  • Jowita
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    28.01.2019

    I could use a machine that irons primarily diapers but also clothes. It takes me a lot of time.

  • NINA
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    28.01.2019

    Of the equipment that would make life easier, I could use a clothes ironing and folding machine. I honestly hate ironing and this is a hard job for me, and as you know children wear a lot of clothes and the washing machine goes almost every day. And while washing is not a problem, because you just sort clothes, put in the washing machine, pour in the powder, pour the liquid, set the right program and wash it yourself, ironing and folding a pile of clothes effectively takes away my life joy and takes the time I would prefer to spend with child. I know that there is such a machine, but due to its price at the moment it remains in the sphere of dreams. Well, but apparently dreams come true so I wait patiently, maybe my husband will give us such a gift someday 🙂

  • 28.01.2019

    I am not a mother yet, but I am preparing to take on this most important role in my life. I am really apprehensive and I have no idea what such a mother might really need. I read, take notes, listen to experienced mothers, but this great unknown is still ahead of me. 🙂
    It seems to me that my mother does not really need anything but faith in her own abilities and self-confidence. Women gave birth, give birth and will give birth, this is an unchanging experience inherited by generations. Of course, any gadget can make it easier in today's world, that's why I decided to enter the competition 😉
    Let's remember, however, that even the best, beloved, wonderful mother just needs peace sometimes. Only so much and so much 😉

  • JOLA
    Reply
    28.01.2019

    Equipment that would make every mother's life easier? Letting your imagination run free I think it would be a portable charger to which you could connect for a moment and recharge your life energy. Just imagine it, you are very tired, irritable, the only thing you dream about is to go to a cozy bed and sleep, sleep and sleep ... But you can't do it because your child like a bunny from a certain battery advertisement demands your attention and wants to play tag, then hide and seek. Not to mention, of course, a pile of laundry, ironing, a pile of washing dishes and that coat that waits for someone to vacuum it. And what are you doing? You connect to this magical charger and you are again full of energy, regenerated and ready to go. Why spend precious time on something as senseless and prosaic as a dream 😛 Think about how many things you could do while you are sleeping blissfully. Seriously, knowing me even if I had such a charger, I would not deny myself the pleasure of sleep. Because is there something more pleasant than falling asleep with your child hugged to you? But for emergency situations such equipment would be as he found, only then poor dads could feel unnecessary 😛

  • migotka
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    28.01.2019

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  • 28.01.2019

    Time-modifier, my son will become an engineer and work out such a miracle, you'll see 😉
    I am mamakpi, i.e. I feed my skimmed milk all the time (incubator, fight for every gram and a lot of starting problems were not conducive to breastfeeding), so at night, when the time for the session comes, I would stop the time (so as not to lose those 30 minutes of sleep 😉), but waiting on Saturday morning with pancakes, I would hurry up so that my three would quickly run downstairs (okay, the two would run down and the third one would yell to bear him 😉), I would stop the time when everyone was sleeping at the same time (and this is a rarity 😉), to fall asleep, read or watch the movie. And when we are with my daughter in the hospital, and we are often, I would accelerate this time full of unpleasant procedures, so that I could be home quickly. I feel that such an invention would replace all the wonderful works 🙂

  • Monika
    Reply
    28.01.2019

    Maple:)
    Seriously, multi-functional works, programmed to perform daily repetitive activities that do not require feelings, such as washing dishes, washing, ironing, vacuuming, because it is not true that the washing machine is washing itself, the dishwasher washes the dishes and the vacuum cleaner vacuums it ... as a rule, we need caregivers of the home, who would be easier to care for the fire, were it not for the fact of daily duties that we have to perform, and which deprive us of priceless moments with our family ...

  • Natalia Łukawska-Boruch
    Reply
    28.01.2019

    In my head there are a lot of thoughts about the equipment that could make our mothers easier for us, and besides the super intelligent self-thinking cleaning robot, self-service washer-dryer-ironer and personal machine-cooker that will please various taste buds of the household, I think I would be the most satisfied if it could be was to connect to the charger yourself and charge the batteries to perform all tasks yourself. I love my daughter and the second little one who will soon appear in the world and despite moments of crisis that I have no more strength to follow the plan of the day and so I love to do all this because I do it for them, for their good. Such a solution would be beautiful if we weren't feeling tired, the day would last 48hours, and we could without any remorse fulfill ourselves 100% as a mother, wife and woman of success

  • Paula
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    27.01.2019

    Definitely teleportation equipment, Children sleep, and mother on Canary for 2 hours (on 5 if you leave the milk 😉) to charge the batteries, relax and rest mentally.

  • Iza
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    27.01.2019

    A Time Changer could be such a life-facilitating device! Preferably in the form of jewelry, e.g. a beautiful hourglass on a gold chain or a delicate classic watch. It would be enough to change the time and date to which we want to go back and ob to move us in time, we could be two at the same time. Then we could do everything we plan without eternal remorse that we lose something or neglect someone. I have been dreaming about such equipment for seven months I am a mother of a premature baby and a mother expressing milk. The breast pump is irreplaceable, and I won't go anywhere without it, but a Time Changer would be THIS! Every day I spend over two hours expressing milk! It is not a wasted time but it is paid for at the expense of closeness with your son or even precious minutes of sleep

    • Paulina
      27.01.2019

      Potter fan? 😀 Me too! Only it would be a problem not to meet each other at home 😀

  • Monika
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    27.01.2019

    The amount of equipment that makes life easier for modern mothers is shocking - sterilizers, pots absolutely - everything - capable, self-propelled vacuum cleaners, washing machines and dryers in one ... But since only the imagination limits us - I think the best solution would be a bilocation device! Ba !!! Even for polylocation !!! So that I don't have to choose between playing with my son, cooking dinner and putting in the laundry 🙁 I currently have Jurek on board who is to be born in April. The doctor categorically demands the emperor, so after the first child - I already know what awaits me. First the fight for food, after returning home chaos, expressing, crying newborn baby and longing old man. After 2 weeks, my husband will return to work. And what's next? I admire and greet my mothers who "embrace". For the rest, a bilocator should be invented 🙂

  • Agnieszka N
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    27.01.2019

    Have you ever watched Narni stories? Our perfect equipment is just such a perfect wardrobe with a magic passage! We enter and we are wherever we want. The day after tomorrow the elder son has a performance for grandparents' day and he is very sorry that he will not have a grandfather or grandmother. Grandma lives 600 km from us, and grandpa overseas. With such a wardrobe it would not be a problem! The second thing ... the mother-in-law always offers a desire to help, and then says "Well, like I lived closer - there is a wardrobe and after a problem! Going to the cinema with your husband tonight? No problem, put the young in the closet and are at night with their grandfather in Brooklyn. Birthday gift? Maybe a quick jump to Disneyland? That would be something. In the harvest season, our chosen clothes were missing? No problem, mik in the closet and we can jump over a hundred Zarów during the day 😉 An older son likes foreign cuisine, he would be delighted if his favorite Chinese food simply came from China. Happy parents are happy children. Dad could always watch his favorite match live, no matter where on earth. And mom? Maybe she would go out once in a while alone, e.g. to the sea? To breathe, eat a waffle and gain energy for a new day.

  • Joanna
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    26.01.2019

    Counter for fatigue, sadness and burnout transmitting alarm signals for the whole "village" of mother and child. Often the biggest problem is the inability to ask for help. I came to the edge of depression and only then did my beloved sister organize partial care for my child. How is it, I mother can not cope with my own child? Is something wrong with me? And so, the year of maternity leave can be a year of tears and torment, as I experienced. Last month, though, I have moments during the day for myself, which totally changes energy for my child, husband and life! With this counter I would save a lot of tears.

  • Agnieszka
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    26.01.2019

    Hello. I have two sons, 17, monthly Antosia and 5, one week old Tymuś, the equipment that made life easier for me would be a combination of a swing rocker for a baby with a built-in noise, a carousel, a handle supporting the baby's pacifier, with handles that massage the tummy. It is best for the equipment to have as many functions as possible 😉 that it would also have moments to rest so that later it would take care of children more intensively 🙂
    Pozdrawiam

  • Agnieszka
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    26.01.2019

    Although I still don't know what it means to be a mother, because I will be her in a few weeks for the first time, I already know that I could use one piece of equipment in my entire layette. A device, an electrostimulator that would turn off fear, stress and frustration, and set Mum to think positive. I think that calmness, patience and self-control are the most important features when caring for a newborn baby. Especially when we do not know what awaits us, and the fear of the first feeding, the first night outside the hospital, the first exit without a baby always has big eyes. It is known that a happy mother is a happy child

  • Urszula
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    25.01.2019

    Teleport.
    I spend a lot of time with my baby and in fact all these facilities like clone, robot, good extension, stopping time etc. would be helpful to me, but there is only one thing that can give me and the baby even more joy and fulfillment. More time with brother and dad. We will also ask for a teleport. The husband often goes on matters all over Poland and today, e.g.: one way takes 4 hours, also the baby went to sleep without oxidizing his daddy. His brother travels to another city a few times a week for training and the journey takes him around 2 one way. And if they had a teleporter, how much more time could they spend with us, ehh. What a beautiful dream. :)

  • 25.01.2019

    When I read such entries, I start to be afraid of motherhood 🙁 I know so little!

  • Ankara
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    25.01.2019

    Equipment that will make life easier for every mother?
    Ohhhhh! I know one who after the birth of his first daughter was a friend of mine ... I did not want it at all, I was not happy that the daughter after leaving the ICU rejected her breast, 2 months of trials which ended in her and my tears, and often exhaustion and lack of hope that will be ok ...
    And then a breast pump came to my aid! I took milk and gave it to my daughter in a bottle ... for several reasons, unfortunately, it lasted only up to 6 months ... it is like feeding double all this time ... so I sold my friend and our road with frozen food started + MM ... and then? Armpits! A month later I found out that I was next pregnant ... and then ... but how? But it is not possible ... and yet, it is possible ... I am approaching the end of the first trimester, and my daughter will soon finish 9 months ...
    And you know what Agnieszka? Despite the fact that I broke up with the previous breastfeeder "in an argument", I can't imagine not using this miracle of technology after the birth of my second child!
    If only the breast pumps could be smaller .. to hide them under a bra and while playing with the child the power to express milk ... ahh such a technical wonder would be a real treasure! :))
    For now I dream about my second baby, but I know lansinoh and I'd like to use this breast pump 🙂

  • Danusia
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    25.01.2019

    What equipment to make life easier for every mother?
    Since I became a mother I have already passed several of these "gadgets for mothers". I still recommend it to all mothers and I think that this should be in the layette for each mother - TULA baby carrier. I moved my first daughter in it, and the second one is already waiting in line. Thanks to the baby carrier, I managed to climb the Austrian Alps with my husband and CHILD, which we love, which we visit every year during the holidays, thus the "elevated" child could breastfeed even at 2800-3000 altitude (of course with the help of watchful observers what I do 🙂 TULA allowed me to take regular and daily walks in my local Beskids, allowed me to calm my child to sleep in any "sub-gate" situation, as well as a calm head when I had to move away from my child and leave them with my dad or babysitter, Index the advantage of a sling from my point of view - it allows me to be an active mother, allows me to be constantly on the move, lets me do what I love - we all know HAPPY MOM is a HAPPY CHILD - TULA makes it very easy for me.
    Greetings together with a happy family: *

  • Ania
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    25.01.2019

    Soon my first toddler will appear in the world and reading all textbooks, watching millions of films and reviewing your entries I think that first of all I could use a whole group of home appliances that would allow me to focus on the baby and devote my time only to him. Such an electric hostess who vacuums, sets the laundry, irons, cooks the dinner for the whole family and sets the dishwasher by slowing down a few hours a day of such valuable time on the occasion 🙂 In addition, the shopping application warning about the dangerous ingredients of all baby items (cosmetics, chlorinated diapers, tissues with hormones ) which after scanning the code would immediately let you know about the threats. For now, I am terrified of the number of new duties and I am stressed if I can save my baby from all threats lurking in every corner and resulting from my ignorance, so for future mothers it would be most useful for me as a program of calming films / audiobooks preparing for a new role that would effectively mute nerves and supported in expectations 🙂

  • Jolanta
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    25.01.2019

    I would bet on a device that regenerates strength, reduces fatigue and improves mood, such a depression leveler and "extra energy producer". If I had such a thing, it's easy to enjoy motherhood

  • Jola
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    25.01.2019

    Equipment that would make every mother's life easier? Letting your imagination run free I think it would be a portable charger to which you could connect for a moment and recharge your life energy. Just imagine it, you are very tired, irritable, the only thing you dream about is going to a cozy bed and sleep, sleep and sleep ... But you can't do it because your child like a bunny from a certain battery advertisement demands your attention and wants to play in tag, then in hide and seek, and finally in Indians, and you are to be a white face that is to be scalped. Not to mention, of course, a pile of items for washing, ironing, a pile of dishes for washing (unfortunately I do not have a dishwasher) and the hair that is waiting for someone to vacuum it. And what are you doing? You connect to this magical charger and you are again full of energy, regenerated and ready to go. Why spend precious time on something as senseless and prosaic as a dream 😛 Think about how many things you could do while you are sleeping blissfully. Seriously, knowing me even if I had such a charger, I would not deny myself the pleasure of sleep. Because is there something more pleasant than falling asleep with your child hugged to you? But for emergency situations such equipment would be as he found, only then poor dads could feel unnecessary 😛

  • Kasia
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    25.01.2019

    For me as a mother of premature babies with 27tc, the best equipment would be to be able to turn off the stress center in the body. I think that for every mother, whether premature or full-term baby, this skill would be useful
    the girls were transported to another hospital right after delivery, I didn't even see them, and the doctors didn't want to give me any information. It was the worst time for me, I saw them only after 4 days. Even in the hospital, when it took me a few minutes to get out of bed, I knew that I would not give up and started my adventure with the breast pump. Because of difficult cc, I couldn't get out of the car myself, but I had to go to them. Initially, when they were at the ICU, we couldn't be there all the time. Every meeting is stress and crying, every phone call is heart palpitations, because maybe they are calling from the hospital about the deterioration of their health. These were difficult 79 days. Now I can only remember it, although tears are still running down my cheeks. The girls are now 5 months and are wonderful, and my adventure with the breast pump continues to this day. The most difficult are visits to doctors in Wwie away from us 120km, when there is a problem with the car in the car. I have to work in hospitals and hide in bathrooms. Even though my breast pump has battery power, it doesn't work that way.
    Best regards with Michalinka and Marcelinka 🙂

  • Agnieszka
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    25.01.2019

    Every mother is different and every child is different, we are different. For one, home-made dinners will be important, others will choose 'jars'. Someone will have to have a sterile order, and for another it doesn't matter. Thousands of duties, someone is alone, someone has a mother, mother-in-law, a husband to help. One mother has a calm healthy child, another lives under the dictation of the calendar with constant visits to specialists. However, there is one thing that every mother is missing, especially the mockery ... ... sen ... the capsule you enter and in 5 regenerates your strength, and you get up sleepy, joyful and full of energy. I wish this for myself and every mother :).

  • Angelika
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    25.01.2019

    For me, as a mocking mother, I could use a breast pump that would express milk in every possible situation and position. For example, during sleep, which mother always has too little ... It is necessary to keep the expressed milk at such a temperature that you can give the baby a warm milk. He should also withstand the antics and variations with an elderly man ... Because in addition to a small amount of sleep, mom usually also lacks time for children. Because if you clean or cook dinner you can when your husband returns from work, the time spent with the kids will never catch up. So definitely a breast pump for special tasks is my dream.

  • Karolina
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    25.01.2019

    Ojjj there are a lot of items that I think every mother should have, which make life easier for my new mother and give me a break. Unable to decide on one, so I will describe some of my personal hits. Above all, a shawl. Yes. Hit hits. Inherent in us from the first weeks of Frania's life. Good for everything. For kolka, for whining, for falling asleep, for making a quick dinner, for embracing the apartment, or simply cuddly. Without her my life would certainly be more difficult. A second useful item was the feeding pillow. Apparently nothing .. Apparently nobody has discovered America and how much easier. Immediately after giving birth, it was invaluable to me and greatly facilitated daily feeding (and there were over a dozen of them a day). And last but not least ... An inflatable swim ring. Why exactly this? Because I was saved by my aching and massacred body right after giving birth. Patent prompted by a midwife after I gave birth. "Let my husband go and buy you tomorrow." He bought and incredibly facilitated my life in the hospital and then two weeks after the hospital. Where every attempt to sit down was paid for by suffering. A wheel under the ass and life was much better. It should be a must-have (and nobody has ever told me about it before!). At the same time it is a development gadget because it is enough to adapt it more to the female anatomy to do in different colors more marketing and it would certainly spread like fresh rolls. And from this place I greet by the way we all have because we are all amazing because whoever we can do everything and endure everything, each of us is an unbelievable machine. Tired, barely zippy, on coffee vapors but unbreakable. I found this out for myself

  • Gabriela
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    25.01.2019

    It seems to me that every mother needs patience support. Housework, housework, or just a husband or loved one help me in my daily duties. However, the most important thing is to give your child love and learn to show it yourself. I am a mother of two beloved Toddlers and the third one will be born soon. I needed someone most, something that would constantly remind me of patience, being patient, calm and understanding for children in difficult moments. I know that here the role of my husband is irreplaceable, but as you know he is not always "available"

  • Kinga
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    25.01.2019

    Welcome.
    Answering your question about the competition, I will start with the fact that I am the mother of 9, a month-old Wojtek, and my wife for over a year, and from 5 for months living in my own corner, oh, which could use such an Optimus Prime that would take care of renovating the apartment, inserting a laundry top , cooking dinner, entertaining Wojtuś, hanging up the laundry, washing dishes, picking up Wojtek's toys, feeding Wojti (it will be difficult because Optimus Prime does not have a breast pump) but it would quickly take him to order shopping for fruit, and to take care of hygiene and sleep. ... And the wife could have time for her husband not only at night. So reading this, I am Optimus Prime, it is me as a robot or when other mothers come up with, for example, a timer needs my child. He couldn't do without me. Wojtus needs a mother who can do all these things by pausing time to spend time together. We can have robots, we can have pressure cookers, slow cookers, but isn't it better for your child to be such a super hero with whom we can cook, do laundry, enjoy and laugh while taking a bath? What we need is strength and joy, because if one day we do not do this washing, we will do it later. We can handle it at any time of the day or night. greetings

  • Aleksandra
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    24.01.2019

    A money making machine of course! 🙂 although it sounds terribly "from a thick pipe", thanks to her, I would be able to bring dinners, hire a lady who would take care of order, and I (and my husband) would be able to cuddle our son (and soon my daughter too)! play with them as much as I can 🙂
    And by the way it's a great post! I was worried how to reconcile feeding my baby with my day trip activities, and now I believe that it is possible! My job is only summer vacation, so unfortunately I have to make it this year, keep my fingers crossed 🙂

  • Anna
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    24.01.2019

    I would be pleased with my feeling, thinking and acting the same way as I did my clone, that I would raise my child alone, quickly and calmly shop, refuel the car, settle the official matter and be with the 24h child and give him first and foremost myself.
    And technical things ... I think that every mother would be happy with a newborn-baby language translator for our, learned 🙂 would sometimes save unnecessary nerves 😉

  • Klaudia
    Reply
    24.01.2019

    Hello, 🙂
    At the beginning I will write that I have been watching you since I was expecting my little daughter and I was looking for inspiration for packing the bag to the hospital. And that's how I discovered the Frozen Bags, irreplaceable since then! 🙂 As for the invention, I think I will flow into dreams and I would like a machine that could stop time for a while, because as I see my little daughter getting bigger by the day, I need to put her little rompers in the closet because they turn out to be small, and yet just a moment ago I wrapped her sleeves in them .. 🙂 time is running too fast!
    Greetings from 3-monthly Hania 🙂

  • Aleksandra
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    24.01.2019

    In my opinion, the most needed for all mothers would be a hand held TIMER! One day they could stare at their babies during sleep indefinitely. The next would stop the speeding time to be able to sleep soundly. Yet another time they could peacefully bring order to the house! A TIMER CLEANER could also be useful on "problematic" walks, I think every mom sometimes would like to silently evacuate from the fire of passers-by. TIMER is a must have for all Mam! Anyone have such a device on sale? I will gladly buy back. Can be used, in medium condition 😉

  • Aleksandra
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    24.01.2019

    'Sometimes it may seem to you that there is nobody around you who would always be waiting for you. But you know who waits anyway? Washing. Laundry is always waiting for you. ' This quote from blogger perfectly describes my everyday life. With two little ones, I wash every day, at least once, more often two or even three ... I hang on a dryer that occupies almost the entire corridor for me, I segregate dry again by dividing it into the right people, folding, hanging, spreading around the rooms ...
    I dream of a compact machine that would sort the contents of the basket with dirty things, washed, ironed, folded / hung on a hanger and transported to the appropriate wardrobe ... It would be a huge saving of time and energy for me.
    And more realistically - I would need someone who would take care of my boys once a week, so that I could go out for an hour myself, charge my batteries so that the time spent later together would be 100% quality time, I would always with a smile and energy was with my rogues, not just with them.

  • 24.01.2019

    Oh, I could use a time machine or something to stop the time to sleep and clean up for a moment 😀 I had problems with feeding, I have big breasts and my daughter did not want to catch her breasts ... I was crying from both sides until I bought the most ordinary breast pump and pumped 6 for months 2,5 hours day and night. My support to feed my daughter with milk was just a breast pump and that's why I wrote ODE for him! 🙂
    Ode to the Breast Pump

    The breast pump is patient

    does not envy the abundance of breasts

    it does not rise with pride but with milk

    shamelessly embraces your breasts

    I don't want anything in return

    he is not angry with your moods

    will not remind you of being late

    endures everything, believes in you

    He will endure all your fury

    at work he never stops

    I give Your milk without regrets

    a sense of freedom guarantees

    he discreetly does his job

    will murmur in your ear

    when you hold him to your heart

    And you, my Bobask, do not listen to these applause

    because although the breast pump is awesome, you are irreplaceable,

    but he needs his mother when you don't want to drink from your breasts,

    or Your mother must go away for a moment and give you her milk.

    Now I am waiting for the second baby in my tummy, I feel that history will repeat itself, ..

  • Monika
    Reply
    24.01.2019

    I would like a cloning machine, because one mother with three children is not enough! And so: mother No. 1 would calmly feed the baby, mother No. 2 would be building the tallest tower in the world with the rebellious 2latek, and mother No. 3 would practice writing letters and numbers with 6latek. Hmm, maybe more of these would be useful ??? Because it is my mother who cooks the tastiest meal, the mother cleans up the most, mother will do the best ...

  • Agnieszka
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    24.01.2019

    Hmm, what would make every mother's life easier? There is probably no such universal thing. But I know what would make my mother's life easier! Super invisible hidden breast pump without wires, controlled by phone. The one with which you can easily walk around the house and even carry a child. And preferably with parts in the set for the whole day, and a robot that would later take care of washing and pouring portions into the bottle! It would be paradise!

  • Agnieszka
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    24.01.2019

    Definitely equipment that will do everything or almost everything for us: a self-cleaning vacuum cleaner, dishwasher, Kenwood food processor, Every minute that you have to spend on daily cleaning or cooking can then be an extra time for our baby ... or for a long nap 😉 Because after all sleep mother is a happy mother, and hence a happy child 🙂

  • Anna
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    24.01.2019

    Equipment that makes every mother's life easier.

    It would have to be a real factory. A multi-task robot. A real combo.

    Because which, sometimes we did not dream of a machine that I would check several times during the night whether the quilt is still in place. And not once did she think of a robot that would sort all toys in the evening. Puzzle puts into the right boxes. Mascots will be evenly arranged on the shelf. Oh yes! Come such a machine here at least once a week. On Friday 🙂 when the level of fatigue I have is high.

    Or maybe a machine that would clean up our toddler's meal after BLW ... Hmm, it will embrace the child and what will "happen" during this eating process 🙂

    hmm, and I also dreamed about a wardrobe that would put too small clothes (obviously folded in a signed cardboard box). And from inside it would come those that fit in size at the moment. ABOUT! Such a wardrobe. Especially for the first two years of renting a child urgent 🙂;]

    ... I think I swam a little !!! 🙂
    Let it happen. Let it burn. 🙂;]

    • Annq
      30.01.2019

      From the very daydreaming, it makes it feel as if it is warm at heart and easier in these sometimes difficult duties

  • Magda
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    24.01.2019

    I am the mother of Marcel 6
    And in my opinion the must have of every mother is a pressure cooker.
    Being with a small baby, every mother should eat a warm dinner. And a pressure cooker is the best solution, because within 20 min you can prepare a full-fledged meal. And it's not boring, but also colorful and delicious.
    I will be happy to share recipes for one-pot dishes :)

    • Magda
      24.01.2019

      recommend
      In total, I could have one pot - pressure cooker and the other for cooking porridge or rice or pasta.
      In addition to soups or one-pot dishes, he prepares sausages, e.g. ham
      After giving birth, it was salutary for me. I wanted to eat healthy because of breastfeeding and I didn't have to
      spend a lot of time in the kitchen

  • Beata
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    24.01.2019

    What equipment to make life easier for every mother?
    I think it's hard to choose one universal invention. As a future mother, at the beginning I would like to devote myself fully to the baby and fulfill the need for closeness in 100%. I think that in that case I could just use a robot that will do all the work for me. I think I'm too demanding? But washing, cleaning, cooking and ironing are activities that take a lot of time. Time I could devote to my daughter. It's such a modest dream that a small, agile robot would do this job for me 🙂

    • Baeata
      26.01.2019

      It would be great, but the husband is not organized enough to embrace it all 🙂 not to mention ironing ...